December 13, 2013

A dear friend of mine told me she envied my life and liked to follow me on facebook so she could live vicariously through me. Though that was sweet, I think some may have a misconception of how ideal my life really is. I do like to be positive and funny on here, and like to share with you the fun things we do. But the truth is, my life is very NORMAL. And by normal, I mean that I have many struggles and trials, sometimes boredom, and often frustration and concern. We have illness, injuries,, surgeries, money problems, fights with insurance. We have problems at work, at church, with the house, with the cars, with the kids. I often spend long nights awake with worry over situations that I can't control. My job is such that I may or may not be covered in a variety of bodily fluids depending on the day. I mean, how charming is THAT?  But you see, that is LIFE. Because I choose not to dwell on the negative things that happen to me does not mean I don't have them. Sometimes people hurt us, sometimes we get stabbed in the back, or even crapped on (Literally, or figuratively!)  I simply choose to focus on the good things I have in my life, and try to make a difference in the lives of others. If I can bring a little relief, helping hand, or just a smile to someone who needs it, I feel I have done my part in the world that day.  May you all know how much I love you and value your friendship. Your differing ideas and personalities bring joy and variety to my life. Loves to all. ♥